<?xml version="1.0" encoding="iso-8859-1"?><rss version="1.0"><channel><title>Diary of Bharesh Dedhia</title><link>http://bhareshdedhia.rediffiland.com/</link><description>Diary of Bharesh Dedhia</description><language>en-us</language><item><title>Reading - very interesting</title><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT size=6><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 36pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Tahoma','sans-serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">Only </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 36pt; COLOR: #a11f12; FONT-FAMILY: 'Tahoma','sans-serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">great minds</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 36pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Tahoma','sans-serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"> can read this</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P><P><FONT size=3><B><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Tahoma','sans-serif'">This is weird, but interesting! <BR>fi yuo cna raed tihs, yuo hvae a sgtrane mnid too </SPAN></B><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 24pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Tahoma','sans-serif'"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P><B><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Tahoma','sans-serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><P><BR><FONT size=3>Cna yuo raed tihs? Olny 55 plepoe out of 100 can. </FONT></SPAN></B><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Tahoma','sans-serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><FONT size=3> <BR></FONT><B><BR><FONT size=3>i cdnuolt blveiee taht I cluod aulaclty uesdnatnrd waht I was rdanieg. The phaonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid, aoccdrnig to a rscheearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it dseno't mtaetr in waht oerdr the ltteres in a wrod are, the olny iproamtnt tihng is taht the frsit and lsat ltteer be in the rghit pclae. The rset can be a taotl mses and you can sitll raed it whotuit a pboerlm. Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe. Azanmig huh? yaeh and I awlyas tghuhot slpeling was ipmorantt!</FONT></B></SPAN></P><P><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Tahoma','sans-serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><STRONG><FONT size=3></FONT></STRONG></SPAN> </P><P><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Tahoma','sans-serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><STRONG><FONT size=3>Amazing isn't it. !!!</FONT></STRONG></SPAN></P><P><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Tahoma','sans-serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><STRONG><FONT size=3>Recieved this in an email.</FONT></STRONG></SPAN></P><P><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Tahoma','sans-serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><STRONG><FONT size=3>Bharesh Dedhia</FONT></STRONG></SPAN></P>]]></description><pubDate>Wed, 04 Jun 2008 12:51:14 +0530</pubDate><link>http://bhareshdedhia.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/06/04/Reading-very-interesting-1.html</link></item><item><title>Another Shameful proposition - Bharesh Dedhia</title><description><![CDATA[<P>We are so used to politicians passing selfish Laws and Acts in parliament only to further their votebanks, without considering any pros or cons or long term effects. This Gujjar episode is also rather shameful. In this day and age ( 21 Century) we have certain tribe leaders who have inflamed an entire tribe to get themselves down graded in the social ladder in order to get more benefits of reservation. The tribal leader is a retired colonel of the army. Even more shameful. 41 people have lost their lives in this agitation. Rather than work harder to uplift themselves, they are working harder to downgrade their social standing. Quite disappointing ......</P><P>Bharesh Dedhia</P>]]></description><pubDate>Sat, 31 May 2008 14:49:42 +0530</pubDate><link>http://bhareshdedhia.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/05/31/Another-Shameful-proposition-Bharesh-Dedhia.html</link></item><item><title>Natures Brilliance - Bharesh Dedhia</title><description><![CDATA[<P>Everywhere one looks, you can find example of how brilliant nature is. For example look at water. Formed by 2 elements, O2 and H2, both are combustible gases, and yet when you join them together, they form H2O - water, which is used to douse out fire. The analogy can be drawn that 2 elements ( or arguments, seemingly volatile thoughts, conflicts etc), when joined together form a solution much better than the problem. Therefore just like when there are arguments, conflicts, fights, wars, etc, finding a solution lies in the art of communication so that both arguments, conflicts etc. can be eliminated in a common solution. Indeed, if communication across the world was better, there would dramatic decrease in conflicts, divorce, fights, wars, and perhaps even acts of terrorist. </P><P>Nature gives us abundant examples to learn and benefit from....</P><P>Bharesh Dedhia</P>]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 23 May 2008 12:14:04 +0530</pubDate><link>http://bhareshdedhia.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/05/23/Natures-Brilliance-Bharesh-Dedhia-1.html</link></item><item><title>Why is India an easy target for terrorist</title><description><![CDATA[<P>India continues to be an easy target for terrorist. Jaipur blasts were another example of how easy it is for the terrorist to strike. Easy infiltration across the border, nexus of criminals with politicians, corrupt police, poverty, religious extremists are all to blame. What next..... Our leaders are seen to be too soft, unlike states like Israel, where there is a befitting reply to each act of terrorist. We have a shameful history like Kandahar. Terrorist who are caught also are in jail awaiting trial for 5-10 years, instead of swift justice, which can act as a deterrent. Collectively it is the naive electorate to blame which elects people who have a criminal history ( &gt;30% of our MPs have charge sheets and criminal records). Only socioeconomic change in the electorate will help, where better education and understanding will lead lto election of leaders who are geniunely for the people. The story goes on for now..............</P><P>Bharesh Dedhia</P>]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 11:59:02 +0530</pubDate><link>http://bhareshdedhia.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/05/15/Why-is-India-an-easy-target-for-terrorist.html</link></item><item><title>Tips for a Good Life !</title><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">Tips for an Exceptional, Superb &amp; Powerful Life!<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 1.) Take a 10-30 minute walk every day. And while you walk, smile. It is<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">the ultimate antidepressant.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 2.) Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day. Buy a lock if you<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">have to.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 3.) Always pray and make time to exercise. <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'"><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'"><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">   4.) Spend more time with people over the age of 70 And under the age of<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">Six.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 5.) Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants And eat less foods that<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">are manufactured in Plants.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 6.) Drink green tea and plenty of water. Eat broccoli, almonds &amp;<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">walnuts.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 7.) Try to make at least three people smile each day.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 8.) Clear your clutter from your house, car, desk and let new and flowing<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">energy into your life.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 9.) Don't waste your precious energy on gossip, issues of the past,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead, Invest your energy<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">in the  <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'"><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">        positive present moment.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 10.) Realize that life is a school and you are here To learn. Problems are<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">simply part of the curriculum That appear and fade away like algebra class<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; .......but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 11.) Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a layman And dinner like a<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">begger .<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 12.) Life isn't fair, but it's still good.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 13.) Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 14.) Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 15.) You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 16.) Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 17.) Don't compare your life to others'. You have no Idea what their<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">journey is all about.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 18.) Ladies - Go on and burn those 'special' scented Candles, use the 600<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">thread count sheets, the good China and wear fancy  clothes now. Stop<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">waiting for a special occasion. Every day is special.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 19.) No one is in charge of your happiness except you.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 20.) Frame every so-called disaster with these Words: 'In five years, will<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">this matter?'<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 21.) Forgive everyone for everything.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 22.) What other people think of you is none of your Business.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 23.) Time heals almost everything. Give time, time!<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 24.) However good or bad a situation is, it will Change.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 25.) Your job won't take care of you when you are Sick. Your friends will.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">Stay in touch with them.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 26.) Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 27.) Envy is a waste of time. You already have all You need. God provides,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">remember?!<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 28.) The best is yet to come.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 29.) No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 30.) Do the right thing!<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 31.) Call your family often.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 32.) Each night before you go to bed complete the Following statements: 'I<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">am thankful for  __________.' Today I accomplished _________.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 33.) Remember that you are too blessed to be stressed.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; 34.) Enjoy the ride. Remember that this is not Disney World and you<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">certainly don't want a fast Pass. You only have one ride through life so<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">make<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; The most of it and enjoy the ride.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt;<o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; LIVE, LOVE, LAUGH. LIFE'S A  gift. that's why it's called  PRESENT ...<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">UNWRAP IT! Have a Blessed day.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">&gt; Please share with friends!</SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'"></SPAN> </P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">Bharesh Dedhia<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p><FONT face=Calibri> </FONT></o:p></P>]]></description><pubDate>Sat, 10 May 2008 14:27:08 +0530</pubDate><link>http://bhareshdedhia.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/05/10/Tips-for-a-Good-Life.html</link></item><item><title>Amazing Extravagance</title><description><![CDATA[<P>Amazing Extravagance. Wasteful expenditure if you ask me, but then all of us are guilty of wasting money or resources for our whims and fancies at some point or another ...... but nearly 8000 crores for a house !!!!</P><P>Bharesh Dedhia</P><H1>Inside the World's First Billion-Dollar Home</H1><DIV id=yfi_pf_main_my_bar_container><DIV id=yfi_pf_main_my_bar_primary><!--sc-ript src="http://fe.shortcuts.search.yahoo.com/script?fr=csc_fin_pf" type=text/java-script></sc-ript--><!--Yahoo! Finance evergreen article module--><DIV id=yfi_pf_article><DIV class=hd><CITE>by Matt Woolsey<BR>Friday, May 2, 2008</CITE><CITE class=provider>provided by</CITE><A class=logo href="http://www.forbes.com/"><IMG title=Forbes alt=Forbes src="http://us.i1.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/us/fi/gr/partner_logos/forbes_170x33_logo.gif"></A></DIV><DIV class=bd><P><!--sc-ript defer type=text/java-script>YAHOO.Shortcuts.hasSensitiveText = true;YAHOO.Shortcuts.sensitivityType = ["adult"];YAHOO.Shortcuts.annotationSet = {"lw_1209661270_0": {"text": "Mandarin Oriental New York","extended": 1,"startchar": 67,"endchar": 94,"start": 67,"end": 94,"extendedFrom": "New York","predictedCategory": "","predictionProbability": "0","weight": 2.33805,"type": ["shortcuts:/concept"],"category": ["CONCEPT"],"context": "in 2005, Nita Ambani was in the spa at the Mandarin Oriental New York, overlooking Central Park. 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The couple, who have three children, currently live in a" },"lw_1209661270_8": {"text": "Mumbai","extended": 0,"startchar": 1663,"endchar": 1668,"start": 1663,"end": 1668,"extendedFrom": "","predictedCategory": "PLACE","predictionProbability": "0.972366","weight": 0.25,"type": ["shortcuts:/us/instance/place/ambiguous", "shortcuts:/us/instance/place/destination"],"category": ["PLACE"],"context": "couple, who have three children, currently live in a 22-story Mumbai tower that the family has spent years remodeling to meet","metaData": [ { "geoArea": "473.381","geoCountry": "India","geoCounty": "Mumbai Suburban","geoIsoCountryCode": "IN","geoLocation": "(72.875877, 19.07103)","geoName": "Mumbai","geoPlaceType": "Town","geoState": "Maharashtra","geoStateCode": "MAH","geoTown": "Mumbai","type": "shortcuts:/us/instance/place/in/town"}, { "geoArea": "102.13","geoCountry": "India","geoCounty": "Mumbai","geoIsoCountryCode": "IN","geoLocation": "(72.825348, 18.964849)","geoName": "Mumbai","geoPlaceType": "District","geoState": "Maharashtra","geoStateCode": "MAH","type": "shortcuts:/us/instance/place/in/district"}] },"lw_1209661270_9": {"text": "Hirsch Bedner Associates","extended": 0,"startchar": 1934,"endchar": 1959,"start": 1934,"end": 1959,"extendedFrom": "","predictedCategory": "","predictionProbability": "0","weight": 2.19309,"type": ["shortcuts:/concept"],"category": ["CONCEPT"],"context": "custom home. 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The contemporary Asian interiors struck her just so, and prompted her to inquire about the designer.</P><P>Nita Ambani was no ordinary tourist. She is married to <SPAN class=yshortcuts id=lw_1209661270_2 style="CURSOR: hand; BORDER-BOTTOM: #0066cc 1px dashed">Mukesh Ambani</SPAN>, head of Mumbai-based petrochemical giant Reliance Industries, and the fifth richest man in the world. (Lakshmi Mittal, ranked fourth, is an Indian citizen, but a resident of the U.K.)</P><P><TABLE style="BORDER-RIGHT: #d7deee 1px solid; BORDER-TOP: #d7deee 1px solid; MARGIN: 10px; BORDER-LEFT: #d7deee 1px solid; BORDER-BOTTOM: #d7deee 1px solid" width="40%" align=right><TBODY><TR><TD style="PADDING-RIGHT: 10px; PADDING-LEFT: 10px; PADDING-BOTTOM: 10px; PADDING-TOP: 10px"><B>More from <A href="http://forbes.com/" target=_blank><SPAN class=yshortcuts id=lw_1209661270_3><FONT color=#0f55c3>Forbes.com</FONT></SPAN></A>:</B> <BR><BR>• <A href="http://www.forbes.com/2008/04/30/home-india-billion-forbeslife-cx_mw_0430realestate_slide_2.html?partner=yahoo"><SPAN class=yshortcuts id=lw_1209661270_4><FONT color=#0f55c3>In Pictures: Inside the World's First Billion-Dollar Home</FONT></SPAN></A> <BR><BR>• <A href="http://www.forbes.com/2008/03/05/homes-property-billionaire-forbeslife-billionaires08-cx_ph_0305realestate_slide.html?partner=yahoo"><SPAN class=yshortcuts id=lw_1209661270_5><FONT color=#0f55c3>In Pictures: Homes of the Billionaires</FONT></SPAN></A> <BR><BR>• <A href="http://www.forbes.com/2007/10/15/homes-expensive-world-forbeslife-cx_mw_1015mostexpensivehomes_slide1.html?partner=yahoo"><SPAN class=yshortcuts id=lw_1209661270_6><FONT color=#0f55c3>In Pictures: World's Most Expensive Homes 2007</FONT></SPAN></A> </TD></TR></TBODY></TABLE></P><P>Forbes estimated Ambani's net worth at $43 billion in March. Reliance Industries was founded by Mukesh's father, Dhirubhai Ambani, in 1966, and is India's most valuable firm by <SPAN class=yshortcuts id=lw_1209661270_7 style="CURSOR: hand; BORDER-BOTTOM: #0066cc 1px dashed">market capitalization</SPAN>. The couple, who have three children, currently live in a 22-story <SPAN class=yshortcuts id=lw_1209661270_8>Mumbai</SPAN> tower that the family has spent years remodeling to meet its needs.</P><P>Like many families with the means to do so, the Ambanis wanted to build a custom home. They consulted with architecture firms Perkins + Will and <SPAN class=yshortcuts id=lw_1209661270_9>Hirsch Bedner Associates</SPAN>, the designers behind the Mandarin Oriental, based in <SPAN class=yshortcuts id=lw_1209661270_10>Dallas</SPAN> and <SPAN class=yshortcuts id=lw_1209661270_11>Los Angeles</SPAN>, respectively. Plans were then drawn up for what will be the world's largest and most expensive home: a 27-story skyscraper in downtown Mumbai with a cost nearing $2 billion. The architects and designers are creating as they go, altering floor plans, design elements and concepts as the building is constructed.</P><P><IMG style="MARGIN-BOTTOM: 10px; MARGIN-RIGHT: 10px" height=349 alt=billion_dollar_home.jpg src="http://us.news2.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/p/fi/16/31/30.jpg" width=130 align=left></P><P>The only remotely comparable high-rise property currently on the market is the $70 million triplex penthouse at the <SPAN class=yshortcuts id=lw_1209661270_12>Pierre Hotel in New York</SPAN>, designed to resemble a French chateau, and climbing 525 feet in the air. When the Ambani residence is finished in January, completing a four-year process, it will be 550 feet high with 400,000 square feet of interior space.</P><P>The home will cost more than a hotel or high-rise of similar size because of its custom measurements and fittings: A hotel or condominium has a common layout, replicated on every floor, and uses the same materials throughout the building (such as door handles, floors, lamps and window treatments).</P><P>The Ambani home, called Antilla, differs in that no two floors are alike in either plans or materials used. At the request of Nita Ambani, say the designers, if a metal, wood or crystal is part of the ninth-floor design, it shouldn't be used on the eleventh floor, for example. The idea is to blend styles and architectural elements so spaces give the feel of consistency, but without repetition.</P><P>Antilla's shape is based on Vaastu, an Indian tradition much like Feng Shui that is said to move energy beneficially through the building by strategically placing materials, rooms and objects.</P><P><STRONG>Pricey Pad </STRONG></P><P>Atop six stories of parking lots, Antilla's living quarters begin at a lobby <STRONG></STRONG>with nine elevators, as well as several storage rooms and lounges. Down dual stairways with silver-covered railings is a large ballroom with 80% of its ceiling covered in crystal chandeliers. It features a retractable showcase for pieces of art, a mount of LCD monitors and embedded speakers, as well as stages for entertainment. The hall opens to an indoor/outdoor bar, green rooms, powder rooms and allows access to a nearby "entourage room" for security guards and assistants to relax.</P><P><IMG style="MARGIN: 10px" height=151 alt="© Hirsch Bedner Associates" src="http://us.news2.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/p/fi/16/31/29.jpg" width=200 align=right></P><P>Ambani plans to occasionally use the residence for corporate entertainment, and the family wants the look and feel of the home's interior to be distinctly Indian; 85% of the materials and labor will come from outside the U.S., most of it from <SPAN class=yshortcuts id=lw_1209661270_13>India</SPAN>.</P><P>Where possible, the designers say, whether it's for the silver railings, crystal chandeliers, woven area rugs or steel support beams, the Ambanis are using Indian companies, contractors, craftsmen and materials firms. Elements of Indian culture juxtapose newer designs. For example, the sinks in a lounge extending off the entertainment level, which features a movie theater and wine room, are shaped like ginkgo leaves (native to India) with the stem extending to the faucet to guide the water into the basin.</P><P>On the health level, local plants decorate the outdoor patio near the swimming pool and yoga studio. The floor also features an ice room where residents and guests can escape the <SPAN class=yshortcuts id=lw_1209661270_14>Mumbai</SPAN> heat to a small, cooled chamber dusted by man-made snow flurries.</P><P><IMG style="MARGIN-RIGHT: 10px" height=153 alt="© Hirsch Bedner Associates" src="http://us.news2.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/p/fi/16/31/28.jpg" width=200 align=left></P><P>For more temperate days, the family will enjoy a four-story open garden. In profile, the rebar-enforced beams form a "W" shape that supports the upper two-thirds of the building while creating an open-air atrium of gardens, flowers and lawns. Gardens, whether hanging hydroponic plants, or fixed trees, are a critical part of the building's exterior adornment but also serve a purpose: The plants act as an energy-saving device by absorbing sunlight, thus deflecting it from the living spaces and making it easier to keep the interior cool in summer and warm in winter. An internal core space on the garden level contains entertaining rooms and balconies that clear the tree line and offer views of downtown Mumbai.</P><P>The top floors of entertaining space, where Ambani plans to host business guests (or just relax) offer panoramic views of the Arabian Sea.</P></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV>]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 02 May 2008 11:03:39 +0530</pubDate><link>http://bhareshdedhia.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/05/02/Amazing-Extravagance-1.html</link></item><item><title>If oil prices rise further ...</title><description><![CDATA[<P><FONT size=4><STRONG>COWASAKI BY BAJAJ</STRONG></FONT></P><P> </P><P> </P><P>posted by Bharesh Dedhia </P>]]></description><pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 16:13:01 +0530</pubDate><link>http://bhareshdedhia.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/04/28/If-oil-prices-rise-further.html</link></item><item><title>If Oil Prices rise</title><description><![CDATA[Posted by Bharesh Dedhia<br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home3/873/3890e8ff8fe84f7e129fb115e1b11117/homep/images/1209379368">]]></description><pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 16:11:39 +0530</pubDate><link>http://bhareshdedhia.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/04/28/If-Oil-Prices-rise.html</link></item><item><title>Grandma's Hands</title><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><STRONG><SPAN style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">This was sent to me by my sister...                    Bharesh Dedhia</SPAN></STRONG></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><STRONG><SPAN style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"></SPAN></STRONG> </P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><STRONG><SPAN style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"></SPAN></STRONG> </P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><STRONG><SPAN style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">JUST LOOK AT THE PICTURE A GOOD WHILE, AND THEN READ THE REST.  IT WILL TOUCH YOU.</SPAN></STRONG><SPAN style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"> <BR><BR><BR></SPAN><STRONG><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">I was privileged to take a photo of</SPAN></STRONG><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"> <B>'Five Generations of Women'</B> shortly before my 93 year-old Grandmother passed away last year.  The photo, shown below, features the hands of my Grandmother, Mom, Sister, Niece and Great-Niece. While I can't take credit for the idea, I was so happy to have had the suggestion & capture this moment.  It inspired a friend of mine to do something similar which turned out so beautiful and a special keepsake prior to her father's passing.</SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">    <BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Bookman Old Style','serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><BR></SPAN><B><SPAN style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Bookman Old Style','serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">Grandma's Hands</SPAN></B><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"> <BR><BR><?xml:namespace prefix = v ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:vml" /><v:shapetype id=_x0000_t75 stroked="f" filled="f" path="m@4@5l@4@11@9@11@9@5xe" o:preferrelative="t" o:spt="75" coordsize="21600,21600"><v:stroke joinstyle="miter"></v:stroke><v:formulas><v:f eqn="if lineDrawn pixelLineWidth 0"></v:f><v:f eqn="sum @0 1 0"></v:f><v:f eqn="sum 0 0 @1"></v:f><v:f eqn="prod @2 1 2"></v:f><v:f eqn="prod @3 21600 pixelWidth"></v:f><v:f eqn="prod @3 21600 pixelHeight"></v:f><v:f eqn="sum @0 0 1"></v:f><v:f eqn="prod @6 1 2"></v:f><v:f eqn="prod @7 21600 pixelWidth"></v:f><v:f eqn="sum @8 21600 0"></v:f><v:f eqn="prod @7 21600 pixelHeight"></v:f><v:f eqn="sum @10 21600 0"></v:f></v:formulas><v:path o:connecttype="rect" gradientshapeok="t" o:extrusionok="f"></v:path><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:lock aspectratio="t" v:ext="edit"></o:lock></v:shapetype><BR>  ; <BR><B>GRANDMA'S HANDS</B> A must read thru to the end please!!!!!!!!!!!!!<BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">Grandma, some ninety plus years, sat feebly on the patio bench. <BR>She didn't move, just sat with her head down staring at her hands. <BR><BR>When I sat down beside her she didn't acknowledge my presence and the <BR>longer I sat I wondered if she was OK. <BR><BR>Finally, not really wanting to disturb her but wanting to check on her <BR>at the same time, I asked her if she was OK. She raised her head and <BR>looked at me and smiled. 'Yes, I'm fine, thank you for asking,' she <BR>said in a clear voice strong. <BR><BR>'I didn't mean to disturb you, grandma, but you were just sitting here <BR>staring at your hands and I wanted to make sure you were OK,' I <BR>explained to her. <BR><BR>'Have you ever looked at your hands,' she asked. 'I mean really <BR>looked at your hands?' < BR><BR>I slowly opened my hands and stared down at them. I turned them <BR>over, palms up and then palms down. No, I guess I had never really looked at <BR>my hands as I tried to figure out the point she was making. <BR><BR>Grandma smiled and related this story: <BR><BR>'Stop and think for a moment about the hands you have, how they have <BR>served you well throughout your years. These hands, though wrinkled <BR>shriveled and weak have been the tools I have used all my life to <BR>reach out and grab and embrace life. <BR><BR>'They braced and caught my fall when as a toddler I crashed upon the <BR>floor. <BR><BR>They put food in my mouth and clothes on my back. As a child, my <BR>mother taught me to fold them in prayer. They tied my shoes and pulled <BR>on my boots. They held my husband and wiped my tears when he went off <BR>to war. <BR><BR>'They have been dirty, scraped and raw , swollen and bent. They were <BR>uneasy and clumsy when I tried to hold my newborn son. Decorated <BR>w ith my wedding band they showed the world that I was married and loved someone <BR>special. <BR><BR>They wrote my letters to him and trembled and shook when I <BR>buried my parents and spouse. <BR><BR>'They have held my children and grandchildren, consoled neighbors, and <BR>shook in fists of anger when I didn't understand. <BR><BR>They have covered my face, combed my hair, and washed and cleansed the <BR>rest of my body. They have been sticky and wet, bent and broken, dried <BR>and raw. And to this day when not much of anything else of me works <BR>real well these hands hold me up, lay me down, and again continue to <BR>fold in prayer. <BR><BR>'These hands are the mark of where I've been and the ruggedness of life. <BR><BR>But more importantly it will be these hands that God will reach out <BR>and take when he leads me home. And with my hands He will lift me to <BR>His side and there I will use these hands to touch the face of <BR>Christ.' <BR><BR>I will never look at my hands the same again. But I remember God <BR>reached out and took my grandma's hands and led her home. <BR><BR>When my hands are hurt or sore or when I stroke the face of my <BR>children and husband I think of grandma. I know she has been stroked and <BR>caressed and held by the hands of God. <BR><BR>I, too, want to touch the face of God and feel His hands upon my <BR>face. <BR><BR>When you receive this, say a prayer and watch God's answer to prayer work in your life. </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">Let's continue praying for one another. <BR><BR><BR>-- Author Unknown </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home3/873/3890e8ff8fe84f7e129fb115e1b11117/homep/images/1209123899">]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 25 Apr 2008 17:12:08 +0530</pubDate><link>http://bhareshdedhia.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/04/25/Grandma-s-Hands.html</link></item><item><title>Financial Security - Bharesh Dedhia</title><description><![CDATA[<P>It is important to be financially secure for ones future and for your families long term well being. While this is not a recommendation for proceeding on a materialistic drive, but a realistic goal. Over the last 5 decades, the best return for our hard earned money is without question by investing in equities. If one has held on to good equities for more than 5 years in any period, there has never been a period of negative return ( the key is to hold for more than 5 years). Hands down this method has beaten all other investments in banks, CD, government bonds, PPF, KVS etc. As you grow older, then the equity component should go down and moved to income generation investments. </P><P>It is time for your hard earned money to work hard for you !!!</P><P>Bharesh Dedhia</P>]]></description><pubDate>Wed, 23 Apr 2008 12:02:47 +0530</pubDate><link>http://bhareshdedhia.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/04/23/Financial-Security-Bharesh-Dedhia-1.html</link></item></channel></rss>